Posted on 04/18/2012 at 08:36 PM
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I think the kind of misrepresentation that you are talking about with female gamers though stems from the media's representation of girls playing games (like G4). A few people who pretend to like something that they don't aren’t to blame for that. The truth is that most people growing up are somewhat disingenuous when they're trying to fit in. It’s part of growing up and part of finding yourself. In all honesty I'm not too worried about poser gamers. If anything it's flattering that gaming is getting to the point where people want to pretend that they play games, though I don't think it really has reached that point yet. But I will say this; I really think the public’s opinion of female gamers is shaped far more media than it is by the individual at this point. Female gamers are not transparent enough to have that widespread impact that the article was referencing. In my opinion that article was much more about her wanting to be the only female gamer in the group, her being territorial of her space, and not wanting to lose the identifier that made her unique.
As for the undesirables that might come with the growth of our culture, it's true that opening our hobbies to the public will let some assholes in, but I hate to tell you there were already assholes who were geeks long before that. Geeks can be just as superficial, just as mean, and just as snobby as any other culture in America. I’ve met plenty of fellow geeks who have written me off, because I don’t look the part or I haven’t played the same obscure titles that they have. Now I know that some of the bro’s that inhabit today’s current FPS games can be tough to deal with, but I think the good that comes with expanding our culture will far outweigh the negative.