Recently a friend of mine found out that I like to play video games as a hobby. He plainly told me that he thought it was immature for a grown man to be playing video games. I told him that most gamers today are adults. This led to a serious discussion about this topic. Here are some things which he said and my arguments against them. I'm posting this because I want your guys' thoughts on this topic.
"It's okay to play video games when you're a kid and a teen, but not an adult." He's saying that games are solely for young people. I told him that video games are a hobby. Anything can be a hobby! A hobby is something you do in your spare time to relax. Why can't an adult enjoy a video game after a long day of work?
"It's been proven that video games are bad for your brain." I told him that actually the opposite is true. Studies now show that video games are good for your brain in a variety of ways. Look it up.
"Video games can make kids violent and unsociable." This can be true. However, he's painting all games with a broad brush. There are a ton of different styles of games. A puzzle game will not make anyone violent! Also, the video game community is booming today, so the unsociable argument is no longer valid. People have even been married due to relationships they found while playing an online game. It's happened.
"Video games are very addicting." This argument can also be made for movies, TV-watching, and books. You can get addicted to these as well. Self-control plays a part here. Now listen to this next argument he gives.
"You spend hours and hours playing ONE game, and when you beat it, you've accomplished nothing of value in the world." He obviously doesn't understand how satisfying it is to finish an exciting game. There was a personal sense of accomplishment when I finished games such as Ocarina of Time and Final Fantasy VI. Of course, he doesn't get that since he hasn't done that. The same argument can be made for reading books. After reading a 500 page novel, what has the person accomplished? Have they wasted their time? No, it's a personal accomplishment.
The guy who argued this with me is a big sports guy. Sports are also a hobby. But why would sports be considered a mature hobby for adults, and video games not? I need your input, guys! Is it immature for a full-grown adult to play games like Mario (which is clearly for kids only! *sarcasm)? Is it immature to pull out a handheld gaming device on a train or plane and play Pokemon or some other RPG? What arguments would you make against such an accusation? I really appreciate your input, guys.
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