I've been through the ringer on jobs myself. The job that moved me to Maryland turned out to be a bust, so I got a new one. That job came with its own problems, and I was not a happy camper.
Eventually, given the soft job market in Maryland combined with the insane cost of living in Maryland, I started looking elsewhere and ended up back in Arizona, which I like much better. It was crazy that Arizona employers are calling me right and left where Maryland employers moved at the pace of a tired snail. I'd get e-mails from prospective MD employers three months later saying that I had been declined for a position (my unsent response: "No shit, Sherlock.") I'll miss the fun places on the East Coast... but on the other hand, I now have the West Coast in my backyard. And as a bonus, I'm getting more involved in gaming again. I'm actually finishing games again, and Arizona is home to some of the best video game stores I've ever seen.


