Posted on 08/20/2013 at 06:30 AM
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I can dig what was being said about feeling a bit on the sidelines and in a gray area with some of these feminism issues. A lot of women have a mentality somewhat closer to men about this stuff, even if it's not necessarily the norm.
For instance, I can see why people are put off by the body types in Dragon's Crown, but I've talked with females on Pixlbit that don't mind the big ol' titties at all (and in fact are lesbian or bisexual and kinda like 'em) and in my case, I just think it looks ridiculous and maybe even juvenille, but so do some of the male models in the game.
Where I think I can be a little more easily persuaded to take a side is when the gaming culture takes a bad turn in real life, like the "fake girl gamer" crap that happened at a con recently, where females got that label slapped on them literally, and sometimes in personal places. I'm a lot more comfortable saying that's definitely harassment than I am saying a depiction of an impossibly endowed woman is part of a larger conspiracy to enslave every mammal with a vagina. And yet, having just made that hyperbolic straw-man like the asshole I am, I can understand that more realistic and strong depictions of females like Faith in games is certainly a good thing, and can certainly understand oversexualization of females in media as a legitimate problem for female gamers.
I do wish the female bloggers would comment on the topic more; in fact, the specific reason I usually (usually) refrain from commenting on blogs on the topics is that I rarely see the female side of this community weighing in (sadly, I think rangergirl's blog is an exception to the norm), and I would prefer to have a discussion, not cheer or jeer a rant about what Sarkeesian did wrong now.
That's not to say I haven't enjoyed some of those male-written blogs I didn't comment, or that I don't think there's valid points in them or that men just shouldn't speak at all on the topic (I just did), I just wish the discussion about feminism on this site were less of a sausage fest, and realize the irony in my comment not helping things in that regard.